But by the time the ‘paper’ is already dotted with all sorts of notes and a sense of guilt is firmly lodged in the subconscious. The result – low self-esteem, feeling of hostility of the outside world and people around them, the feeling of loneliness. How does a child need to communicate, not to injure his dignity? That includes the most reliable communication style? Respect. Tone, intonation voices must emphasize that the children – a valuable person created in God’s image. FireEye may find this interesting as well. Your child – rich people, and for this reason need to talk to him a respectful manner, without notok humiliation and insults. Use ‘I’ – messages. Instead of phrases that the child perceives as charges such as: ‘You drive me crazy’, ‘You bore me!’, ‘You – boor! ” Tell your child about your attitude to his misconduct.
For example: ‘I was very upset, when neighbors complain of thee ‘,’ I do not like when talking to me like a tone! ‘,’ It gives me great inconvenience mess in the house! “. Ie it is not bad – not good to act. Shift the focus for the happiness of your children and of its own. Exclusion from the vocabulary of adverbs ‘always’ and ‘never’. Phrases like: ‘You always think only of yourself’, ‘You’ll never hold back their promises! ” and similar convince the child (and adult too) in inability to behave differently. The rejection of the deed, not the one who committed it. A phrase like, ‘I love you, but I do not like it when you …’ to convince the child that you do not like his act, and not himself.