Begin to familiarize with the physiological basis of love can be that selective the object of attraction occurs at the genetic level, that is, roughly speaking, the greater the difference in the genetic codes of both the stronger mutual attraction since more than on the basis of the parents, the healthier and adaptable to their offspring (the principle of heterosis). It is not always this genetic 'trigger' starts the biochemical mechanism at the same time in both, there is a 'spark jumps between the two' – both figuratively talk about this love. But if it does, then necessarily there is a feeling of boundless happiness from a sense of oneness with the beloved person – reckless euphoria of love. Feelings, broke out just one, delivered him a double sense – 'mix' of happiness and sorrow. To survive this (unrequited love) takes time, distance and self-love to not become obsessive, eclipsing all desire – a schizophrenic 'obsession'. A Since the degree of self-control is individual and depends on the overall level of human development – from education, from the patterns of thinking and behavior, and this state is experienced differently. Moreover, the higher the level, the skilled man is able to control your instincts without harm to their own mental health, well – the physical health of others. By the way, often forcing people to seek you liked at any cost is not so much natural love as self-interest of the owner. Rather, the instinct of procreation, which is the basis of the natural love and jealousy and related natural competitive spirit makes men seek partner does not only because of the intimacy, but because of the desire to possess proprietary, and thus – away from rivals.
Experiencing difficulties together, change together. Again fairy tale? They lived long and happily and died in one day. The essence of woman – a desire, which is why a man and it seems that she was always on him for something and always requires dissatisfied. Women property – the house, so men are often so masterly control huge enterprises can not cope with the elementary problems in the home. Man and woman work perfectly together.
It is – staying home and sending it to 'hunt', and he – well oriented to the outside world and brings his family 'booty'. Levi’s takes a slightly different approach. And that's what he brings to his wife? Salary? Spirits on March 8? Let's say he's a musician, but not so brilliant, and she is already tired of being the queen of partying and want of confidence in the future. But he – no coat, no microwave ovens, disappears at the concerts and it is unclear who comes after midnight. There's a mismatch of desires, divorce and mother's maiden name. But the rings, fur coats and a microwave – it specifically.
For example, you want new jeans and finish University. , What is more important and more? Of course university education – is the future. Just everyone, even if he does not realize, is the main desire, which is more important than all others. It is the desire – to learn the meaning of their life. It aligns all other desires, not suppress, as soon as they grow. Why do I live, what is my role? In the desire to respond to these difficult questions – and the key to a mystery why we humans are in no way can be satisfied. Winner takes all! It is precisely because we want everything, not to razmenivayas particular. It is this main desire and can unite the husband and wife as they do not merge nor the desire to build a house, nor the desire to grow children, nor fashionable tango courses, or one million in the marriage basket, nor even the desire to know the secrets of the Andromeda nebula. The Kabbalists call this condition metaphorically as' between husband and wife is the Creator. " So, remember my mother's advice and please – husband and wife are not looking at each other with all faults, and the overall supreme goal of life. And it unites them. 15/03/2009
As it is natural and normal – much to find a good husband. And why not abroad? There is nothing reprehensible. If it is not there, of course, need to look further. Nowadays, distance is no obstacle. After It is no secret that in our country, more women than men.
Even more so – good men. They are, of course. But all is not enough. So it turns out, this situation is often that a woman and pretty, and many others in her positive qualities, but a partner worthy of her she does not find it. Enough to pass our streets to make sure that there is a lot of the stronger sex, which is not alien to such bad habits as the abuse of alcohol, profanity, and just a cynical rudeness towards others. That poor woman mayutsya with the choice of a partner for life. And if we take into account our Slavic customs, which for generations have planted in a society such views, that if a woman does not marry before 25 years, then it is a cause for concern – as it does not stay in the old virgins! Here's the good women to give the hint: pebble is not limited to men of our country. There are others! Y Some of our girls and women, however, developed a kind of stereotypical view of marriages with foreigners marriages with foreigners.
Believe that this is not available, it is unrealistic and even patriotic. And should look at this issue with On the other hand. And then it becomes clear that it is available, and real, and not to be refused. Though, naturally, and not so easy. But efforts need to apply in any case. Little effort, a little patient waiting, a little optimism. You look, and "ice" has moved! The waiting time has not passed in vain, hopes were justified, given its search results. After all, we must not forget one important point – foreign men. not only do not mind, but even greet search , Ukrainian wives! Moreover, these men very much. Do not assume that this is a pipe dream – to find a foreign husband. Remember that these men are looking for love, want love and want to be loved. Drop the unnecessary doubt uncertainty drop, drop alarm. Know that draws attention to Russian and Ukrainian women. their exceptional beauty, their intelligence, their education, femininity. Get out of doubt! Only hope and Success!