Stagnant in this type of behavior, block and thus prevented that what most fills us and makes happy will occur, always blaming to life and others. We become victims. What kind of happiness experienced a victim? Comfort and custom, to which a person undergoes a victim of your own lack of self-esteem and courage, which tied it for example your desenamorada partner. But even though strive in that role, he feels and knows that it cannot replace the real feeling of love that makes you feel real and truly happy. Love is not provided to the human mind games, does not change to please the lie, daughter of fear, only knows what it is, pure joy.
Refusing the possibility of love and loving, not only is refusing to Yes, but also refuse to each other and to others. To cling to a now obsolete relationship, not to release it, we’re preventing that the right person comes to our side or go to yours. For more information see British Journal of Educational Technology. Yes, we became the main obstacle to our own happiness. We are not authorizing the most natural thing of the world, we refuse to get involved in heart, we forbid us to feel fully in love, we exclude from the list of the loved ones. Do many times we have heard: better bad known that good to know? This is the belief and the saying of a person who does not trust in life, that gives back and gives it to you also to everything that is love. By fear, do not dare to be happy or let others be it; that way they will not remind you that she is not being so. A person that ignores and does not fight for prosperity in its existence, is a person who believes do not deserve good, neither little nor much, but yes gives you all your strength of will and beliefs to what others, who have been their models of education in the past, taught him from his own fears and their lack of self-esteem.